Matching Resources for Parents
Matching Support Webinars
Are you interested in learning about the matching process and networking with other potential matching partners? Join our Matching Support Webinar series to get informed!
Matching Plan Worksheet
This Matching Plan Worksheet is created to be a tool to help any individual who is searching for their heavenly spouse to receive the Marriage Blessing. It should be adapted to each person’s or family’s situation. You may not want to answer or be able to answer all the questions. Feel free to answer the questions that will help you think and prepare yourself best.
Matching Discussion Questions
These questions can be used to try to get to know a new candidate or family.
Parents Matching Convocations
Learn about the family matching process, hear presentations, meet and discuss with staff, supporters and other parents. View or display profiles of matching candidates.
Matching Websites
The Online Matching System (OMS) is a tool to facilitate the matching and Marriage Blessing process of first-generation Unificationists, Blessed Children, Special Needs candidates, Affiliate members, and ACLC members. The website works in conjunction with the BFM and cooperates with Blessed Family Departments worldwide.
Please note that in order for Parents to access this site their son or daughter must have a profile first, and must be confirmed to be a Blessed Child. Once confirmed, Parents will receive an email inviting them to register. The Parent registration will also be approved by the Administrator before they will have access.
Also, for a profile to be visible on this website, all registrants must first become fully qualified Candidates as approved by the BFM or BFD in their country.
This is a newer International website hosted by the International BFD; most of the profiles are Blessed Children from countries other than Korea and Japan; note that the most recently updated profiles are listed first on this site.
Please note that in order for Parents to access this site their son or daughter must have a profile first, and must be confirmed to be a Blessed Child. Once confirmed, Parents will receive an email inviting them to register. The Parent registration will also be approved by the Administrator before they will have access.
This is the older International website hosted by the International BFD, which has been updated and improved. Most of the newer profiles are from Korea and Japan; note that the most recently updated profiles are listed first on this site.
Please note that in order for Parents to access this site their son or daughter must have a profile first and must be confirmed to be a Blessed Child. Parents will then receive a notice from the Administrator and then use their son or daughter’s username and password to login, then use a second password received from the Administrator to Search for possible matching candidates.
Matchbook for Blessed Children
Matchbook is a matching network designed by the Blessed Family Association to help Blessed families share information for the matching of their children. Information is only shared with the people you wish, so you can feel comfortable to enter the information for all eligible family members. Most profiles are for Blessed Children. We recommend that First Generation, including those members who joined with their parents use OMS for the greatest exposure.
NOTE: On this website, the Family must register first, enter children’s information and then children can complete a profile.
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Matching Supporters
Matching Supporters are volunteers that feel called to support candidates and their families in the matching process. They thoroughly understand the international guidelines and procedures for the matching process, know the matching and Blessing application process, and have been trained and certified by the National Blessing & Family Ministry, and participate in advanced training at least two times per year. They serve as guides through the matching process.
International Parents Matching Convocations
If your child is open to an international match, then you may want to consider displaying his or her profile at PMCs in other countries. To make a profile available at an international PMC, candidates must be registered at the International Matching Website for Blessed Children with complete profile information and photos.